I want to ask you firstly, do you ever think that a truthful love is a hard thing to get? I will tell a little bit about my own story. Start with a monkey love till really find a love with full of seriousness. I can tell you about my first date experience. Actually, as long as I undergo a relationship, with whoever it is, I am always undergo it well, seriously. Cause for what we choose someone to fill our hearts if we don't like them, right? All of good relationships is begin of like and then love. So if you undergo a relationship with someone but you never like or love him/her, it is not a good relationship, but a bad. Even it is a sad thing.
Sometimes, some people want to date with someone just because he/she has a good appearance, just because he looks handsome or she looks beautiful. If you are one of person with perspective like that, can you promise that your relationship would running smoothly? Don't you ever imagine that an appearance can change everytime? So if it will happend, you will directly finish it? It is a stupidity I think.
In the other hand, communication is a very important thing in a relationship. I have ever had a relationship that I call as my monkey love. Why? When I was still fourteen, I like someone and how happy I am when he told me that he like me too. Then, we committed to build a relationship in January 2009. You can imagine how two children who still fourteen years old build a relationship. It's like a joke. Everytime we met, we never told. When I arrived at home, he send me message. Never call. If he called me, he directly finished his calling when I recieved it. Really silly thing. But both uf us never protest each other. We really enjoyed. Until I get older and older, I start to realize that it was not a good relationship. And finally, we finished ours in September 2010. It is about one year and eight months. Quite long, but with less communication, we couldn't continue it.
Didn't take a long time, I was back dating in October 2010. How fast I move on. It's because that boy is my own friend and we are very closer before. In this second relationship, I'm sure that our relationship have more communication than my first. We always back home from school together. When I was out from class before him, I am waiting for him. And if he was out before me, he is waiting for me. How romantic we are. He was often call me, sang me song, took me dating, drove shuttle me to church, jogging together, gave me some gift, and the other things that I was never get before. But all of that happiness lost slowly. It is because he broke me, he destroy everything. Day by day, week by week, month by month, it started popping up the others girl name between us. And until I was feel tired, finally, I finished this relationship in February 2012. So, it was about one year and four months. In this case, I start to realize that communication is important but don't forget if communication without fidelity is nonsense.
My third. I was in relationship with my own friend who is about two years as my bench friend. We started this in April 2013. I think all days was running normally. We spend many times with a lot of kidding. We are dating, but it feels like we are still a bench friend. I enjojed everyday with him. But it is the first. Slowly, I don't know why, I think there was an awkward thing between us, that actually I don't know what is that. I was scared. There was a name that he couldn't forget from his past. In the other hand, we were in a different place, so far. I mean, it was a long distance relationship. From the last problem, I was affraid of him. I was scared if he couldn't be like before, because his that past, that girl! Finally I was thinking that I couldn't continue ours. I am stopped. We finished in December 2013. So we were only eight months, it is the shortest. But I was never hate him. I was stop with all my readiness. Because I have know him very long as my bench friend. Our friendship even longer than our dating. I was really ready for all of this. From him, I have had many lessons. Sometimes, good friend remains good friend, don't make it more than friend. I feel like we should be friend ever after, why dating?
After my first with less communication, my second without fidelity, and my third that couldn't forget his past, then there was someone come to me like a hero. He always come in the right time. He help me to smile again and always try to make me laugh. Then I started a new story with him in January 2014 and still running until now. No words that I can't say except thanks a lot. He is very nice to me. No days without smile that I get because him, no days. He treat me very very well. I'm always ask, from where a boy like that come? He can't see the tears fall from my eyes. "Don't ever sick! Keep healthy everyday!" It is a demand from him. How could I be so lucky? Because there is a boy with all his heart take care to me since six months ago until now I write this. I'm sure he always keep good communication between us. I'm sure he is a true guy. And he always tell me that no one except me. He promise me to be the best for me.
No rainbow without rain. Sometimes, we should walk with wrong person indeed until we meet a true. Don't be hopeless when you are broken, because actually it is a way to you find a good person more than before. True love is real. Just don't close your eyes for a person that care for you. Open your door if there is someone who promise you a million of smile. Love is not because face, not because appearance, not because the other silly things. Love is about caring, treat well, sincerity, and so on. Love knows no distance. Love is how you love his/her drawback like you love the excess. Say thanks to love.
Didn't take a long time, I was back dating in October 2010. How fast I move on. It's because that boy is my own friend and we are very closer before. In this second relationship, I'm sure that our relationship have more communication than my first. We always back home from school together. When I was out from class before him, I am waiting for him. And if he was out before me, he is waiting for me. How romantic we are. He was often call me, sang me song, took me dating, drove shuttle me to church, jogging together, gave me some gift, and the other things that I was never get before. But all of that happiness lost slowly. It is because he broke me, he destroy everything. Day by day, week by week, month by month, it started popping up the others girl name between us. And until I was feel tired, finally, I finished this relationship in February 2012. So, it was about one year and four months. In this case, I start to realize that communication is important but don't forget if communication without fidelity is nonsense.
My third. I was in relationship with my own friend who is about two years as my bench friend. We started this in April 2013. I think all days was running normally. We spend many times with a lot of kidding. We are dating, but it feels like we are still a bench friend. I enjojed everyday with him. But it is the first. Slowly, I don't know why, I think there was an awkward thing between us, that actually I don't know what is that. I was scared. There was a name that he couldn't forget from his past. In the other hand, we were in a different place, so far. I mean, it was a long distance relationship. From the last problem, I was affraid of him. I was scared if he couldn't be like before, because his that past, that girl! Finally I was thinking that I couldn't continue ours. I am stopped. We finished in December 2013. So we were only eight months, it is the shortest. But I was never hate him. I was stop with all my readiness. Because I have know him very long as my bench friend. Our friendship even longer than our dating. I was really ready for all of this. From him, I have had many lessons. Sometimes, good friend remains good friend, don't make it more than friend. I feel like we should be friend ever after, why dating?
After my first with less communication, my second without fidelity, and my third that couldn't forget his past, then there was someone come to me like a hero. He always come in the right time. He help me to smile again and always try to make me laugh. Then I started a new story with him in January 2014 and still running until now. No words that I can't say except thanks a lot. He is very nice to me. No days without smile that I get because him, no days. He treat me very very well. I'm always ask, from where a boy like that come? He can't see the tears fall from my eyes. "Don't ever sick! Keep healthy everyday!" It is a demand from him. How could I be so lucky? Because there is a boy with all his heart take care to me since six months ago until now I write this. I'm sure he always keep good communication between us. I'm sure he is a true guy. And he always tell me that no one except me. He promise me to be the best for me.
No rainbow without rain. Sometimes, we should walk with wrong person indeed until we meet a true. Don't be hopeless when you are broken, because actually it is a way to you find a good person more than before. True love is real. Just don't close your eyes for a person that care for you. Open your door if there is someone who promise you a million of smile. Love is not because face, not because appearance, not because the other silly things. Love is about caring, treat well, sincerity, and so on. Love knows no distance. Love is how you love his/her drawback like you love the excess. Say thanks to love.
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